Teacher Appreciation event

Our local Baha'i community(Holdfast Bay, Adelaide) joined others around Australia on 30th October in celebrating World Teacher's Day. As Baha'is, we take the role of teacher's in society pretty seriously, and as such try to demonstrate the appreciation of the amazing and often unseen work that teachers do by hosting some form of event or gifts for teachers. This year, we decided to offer morning tea to a primary school and kindergarten at the schools. So we all made finger food - cupcakes, fruit platters, etc, and also a thank you fridge magnet pictured above for each staff member. The fridge magnets are available from 'Hidden Words bookshop, Melbourne.
I went to the kindergarten event and the teachers were so appreciative, saying that no one has ever done anything like this for them!

Happy Birthday Lessan!

The 4some cousins growing up in Africa - Lessan, Nura, Vafa, Martha. Current locations: Lessan in Isreal, Nura is in the best of all places, waiting for us, Vafa and I are in Adelaide, oz.
Lessan, maybe 9 or 10yrs old. Ngoundere, Cameroon.
My sweet little brother ! So many good memories.... and many a pillow fight!

A changing world

This is a beautifully illustrated book i borrowed from the local library recently, a story of a family's home which grew from log cabins and grows as civilization progresses in America, through the eyes of a grandmother telling her grandaughter about the house they live in and how it came to be. The thing that touched me about this book was the sense of continuity and stability, of staying in the same place, and making it home over so many generations, of hard work and perseverance and resilience.
I've lost track of the number of times i've moved houses since childhood, the number of times we've moved countries, cities, suburbs.... As a child, i absolutely loved the moves, and the thrill of what was to come next, of exploring new territory. I look around me now, and it seems like just about everyone i know has moved quite a bit in their lifetime. The last 100 years have seen huge migrations of people across the globe, due to so many things, being displaced by wars and social unrest, seeking safety and a better life in a new place.
As a parent, I sometimes wonder about the effects of so much change on children. I see benefits, such as exposure to different people and places, opening up their mind to what the world has to offer, becoming more adaptable to living in discomfort. But i also wonder wether so much change, coupled with a social norm of instant gratification would result in a person who then craves change for the sake of change, who gets hooked on a fast paced life where we get such a buzz out of it that at the slightest hint of challenging life situations, the first solution that comes to mind is - lets move somewhere else! How do we instill qualities like perseverance, resilience and patience when so many aspects of modern living and of our own lives as parents lean towards quick fixes? Just some of the many perplexing, wonderful learning opportunities that having children has given me.

October in pics

Danny's photo of my current knitting project - first ever sweater, with help from my pro grandma (retired knitter who i'm trying to get back into knitting, for selfish reasons:)
My darling bro pays us a VERY brief visit from Haifa, this is a picnic at Mt Lofty botanic gardens on a cold spring day, and some warm memories.
Love picnics, can ya tell! Baha'i Holy day with friends! Great times.
Danny and his uncle whom he adores and tries to coax into a lot more conversation and games than Lessan would initiate, the 2 get along just great.

paper box

Recycled box for recycled paper. We go through a lot of paper each day, with the kids artwork and writing, so i always have a box for printed paper with a blank side. I'm hoping the tree cutout will be a reminder to 'save trees'.

the weekend

what we each did on a lazy sunday morning..... followed by a hectic week. Danny's working in the new building that's being built in our backyard, a house for my grandma. Life in a construction site can have a few perks!

long overdue post

Above: Different types of triangles - taste better with lavoshak , fruit rollup
Below: Matching game with animal silhouettes i printed and laminated. Also works as a memory game.


Its been almost 2 months now since we made the big decision to withdraw Danny from school. The reasons are many, but the outcome has been nothing but positive, beyond anything I'd ever hoped.
We arrived back in Adelaide just as the school year began, with no idea as to where we would live and what school he would go to. We pitched camp at my parents' home and frantically started looking for a school, so he endedup going to the closest public school. A very outgoing, bubbly boy nervously started school. Nervous became the dominating feature of his life from then on. He enjoyed some aspects of school, was quick with the academic aspect of things, made friends, but at the same time, his desire for perfection and wanting to fit in were very strong. He became extremely shy, to the point of frequently having 'accidents' because he couldn't ask the teacher that he needed to go, he never wanted to talk about school, and eventually he started telling me about incidents of bullying by his classmates. He also became very reluctant to go to school. I tried talking to his teacher, to the PE teacher whom he dreaded, to no avail.
But the last straw for me was his losing interest in reading. Love of learning is a big deal. Once lost, its very hard to recover, and reading is THE most important skill ever. So after prayers and family consultation, we decided to keep him home for a trial period of 2 weeks to see if there was any improvement. Sure enough, he started begging me for lessons, we did math, reading, writing, science and loads of art and craft (his passion) every day. So that was it. End of that school.
I can't begin to describe the ways in which our life has improved ever since that decision. I thoroughly enjoy teaching them myself, and watching those 'aha' moments when something clicks, when he goes dizzy with excitement to try out a new skill.... its priceless. And I'm not going to share that with a poor, frazzled busy teacher who will probably never notice or appreciate these moments anyway, as part of the conveyor belt style education system, which seems 'the' only way for most. Call me a possessive, over protective, whatever mother, but i know i'm doing what feels right at the moment, and I'll take each day as it comes.

Recent happenings

Pirates and princess event organised by a local city council, a very outgoing princess and a much more subdued pirate who wouldn't be talked into dressing up 'in public'.

Mom's group, in the backyard, which is currently a construction site but fascinating to 3 year old boys. This group started out as a crafting group, and we still slip in some knitting or sewing when we can, but basically its a chill session for over-worked moms to catch up and spend a good part of the day with the kids totally occupied with playing together or admittedly 'the box'. We rotate the location, and will be having more outings as the weather gets better.

Daniel's prayer

Amy's prayer